It isn't what we do to gain trust that is difficult, but how we
behave in a trust worthy environment that determines our innate nature
to trust others and be trusted.
Gaining trust starts with a constant scrutiny and an uneasy
relationship that needs us to ignore loose ends, separate
our judgments, become blind and implicit to suspend any residual
disbeliefs to start believing in self and others. Once we believe to
trust, reinforcing the trust is built on a random sampling of
behaviors from a heap of daily interactions, utterances, and
perceptions.
Faking behaviors behind repute is unhealthy, misusing intellect is
fraud, maneuvouring the vulnerability from a position of power is
unpardonable, hiding behind a facade is deceit and any of this leads to
disillusionment. Least of all it irrevocably breaks the beholden cradle
of trust with lethal consequences.
Keeping the trust then, needs to become the second nature of our
existence. Being natural as to who we are and behaving consistently to
our true self, drives better results in any sampling tests. "Just this
time" or "Only in this situation" or "Not twice but just once" is a
behavior that has been cruel to many lives.
[Ruminations based on recent cases and statistics that all news avenues mince daily]
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